incompetence
The way some people drive these days is appalling. It is true that there have always been bad drivers on the roads. There are a lot more cars on the road now though I guess. Part of the problem is too many gadgets distracting drivers from driving. Even the dashboard of most new cars is a big distracting gadget.
It makes me think back many years ago playing car racing video games, back when video game graphics were just starting to become more realistic. One time a friend of mine and I were out in my (real) car going to get some fast (fake) food, taking a break from the games. I said that I felt like I was resisting the urge to drive like I was in the game. We laughed and talked about how ridiculous that would be. We made up stories about how that could turn out.
It is interesting to think back to then from now. The thought of driving like that was ludicrous. We would laugh about it. These days though it is not so funny when a lot of people on the roads actually drive as though they are playing a video game. They really are a minority of drivers on the roads, but my guess would be that they are the cause of a very large percentage of traffic crashes and fatalities.
My first instinct when thinking about this was to conclude how impatient, unsafe and careless a lot of drivers are these days. Pondering it further though, that does not quite feel right. Saying that drivers are impatient, unsafe and careless implies that they possess knowledge about safe driving, and they are failing to use that knowledge. True to a some degree, with some drivers, but at the same time is not entirely accurate.
A more accurate word to describe some drivers would be oblivious. So many drivers truly don't know that safe driving is an option, or that the way they are driving is blatantly stupid, and is putting themselves and everyone around them in danger.
They don't possess knowledge that could be classified as safe driving skills. They just get in, point the vehicle in the general direction of their destination using the steering wheel, and step on pedals to make the vehicle move and stop. Sometimes they luck out and make it from point A to point B without causing a crash. Sometimes they don't.
They are completely oblivious of everything. As though other vehicles on the roads, pedestrians, general safety, and traffic laws are just inconvenient annoyances that they have to pay attention to when they are forced into it.
They act surprised when something requires them to take their foot off the gas, or (the horror) if they have to brake, or if they cause a crash. They don't know what to do with the unforeseen outcomes of their own incompetence. They blow the horn and sometimes yell out the window. If there is stopping involved, or a collision, they might get out of the vehicle and make a bad situation worse with threats and accusations or even physical violence.
I have to walk across a busy intersection, and cross a right turn lane, on my way home from work at rush hour. I learned a very long time ago that if I make eye contact with drivers at the right turn lane they interpret that as permission for them to not stop to let me cross. Like 9 times out of 10 they will keep going. Even though there is a huge sign right at the crosswalk to accompany the lines painted on the pavement. YIELD TO PEDESTRIANS, it says. Pretty straightforward basic driving instruction.
For that reason I rarely make eye contact with drivers there. Sometimes they notice me, and they think I'm not looking so they stop, or, they actually know basic things about driving, and they stop because that is what they are supposed to do. I act like I'm not paying attention, when really I am.
A few times when I noticed a car hurtling into the right turn lane I made it my mission to take a step off the curb at the crosswalk onto the pavement. Not like right out in front of a speeding car or anything, but enough that I made it appear as though I would walk out in front of them, and if they didn't slam on the brakes they would run me over. Some would slam on the brakes and glare at me like I did something wrong. I looked at them and acted surprised as though I just noticed they were there. No one said anything to me. Not even a horn blow, or obscenities yelled. I was likely at risk of wearing a Tim Horton's double double tossed from a car window, or some other kind of juvenile rage. Other drivers didn't even slow, and went flying right on through. They were either pretending not to notice me there, or, more scary, they actually didn't notice.
I only did that a few times. Maybe I had a bad day, or I was in a bad mood from work. More often than not lately, I avoid eye contact with drivers and I try not to do anything that might make them have to make a decision. Nine out of ten drivers turning right at that intersection make the wrong decision anyway. So I figure why interact with them at all if I don't have to? I usually choose to spare ten or fifteen seconds extra to wait for a gap rather than make drivers have to think, or make them stop for the three or four seconds it would take to let me cross in front of them.